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  Micheather
Aug 15, 2011
 

People Don't Change

 
Why should we tell people when they piss us off because they are just going to do the same things they always do.

 

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  Rudderow   People rarely change. We're talking about the hardwiring of peoples' personalities. Most people who say they've changed are ussually lieing or just dont know theirselves that well.

Tue, Sep 13, 2011 at 1:58:19 PM  

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  dadvocate   People don't change, they just become more entrenched in who they are while finding new parts of themselves they didnt realize were there.

Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 4:06:56 PM  

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Micheather   I keep hearing this little voice saying, 'tell em how you feel', but what good is it going to do if this is who they are. Isn't it just better to look for different people?

Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 6:49:31 AM  

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  kristenv   People are capable of change, but its a choice and most do not choose to change.

Mon, Sep 12, 2011 at 6:23:41 AM
 

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  donna   I guess we have to assess why we are telling them what is bothersome. We cannot control what others do, so whether our voice evokes a change, we do not know. However, often telling people how we feel

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Mon, Aug 22, 2011 at 8:12:34 PM
 

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  Maria   A wise man once told me that a person doesn't change, but rather they are able to access more of who they really are. With awareness and willingness to look within themselves and work on it, people have

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Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 3:43:11 PM
 

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  october   I'm not sure i agree with either. People will do the same things if they dont have a stronger reason to do something else, but does that mean they can change as people? I think thats very complicated

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Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 8:41:03 AM
 

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sunny   People will not do the same things they always do if they have a vested interest in what we say.

Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 8:26:35 AM
 

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